恭敬他人，是个人内涵修养的外在体现。
Respect for others is the external manifestation of personal inner cultivation.
懂得恭敬的人，才会为他人着想，维护他人的尊严。在他们的言行举止间可以感受到无尽的暖和和关怀。
Only those who know how to respect can think for others and safeguard their dignity. They can feel endless warmth and care in their words and deeds.
而一个懂得恭敬他人的人，肯定也会得到他人的恭敬。
A person who knows how to respect others will certainly be respected by others.
卓别林有一个特殊好的朋侪，非常痴迷于棒球。
Chaplin had a very good friend who was very fond of baseball.
有次他去朋侪家做客，刚好聊到了棒球，朋侪瞬间打开了话匣子，口若悬河地和卓别林报告棒球活动。
Once he went to a friend's house for a visit, and happened to talk about baseball. His friend immediately opened his mouth and talked about baseball with Chaplin.
从对方谈起棒球开始，卓别林的话变少了，因为他完全没有接触过棒球，大多数时间都是朋侪在讲，他则微笑凝视着对方并认真地听着，偶然说上几句回应朋侪。
Since the other side talked about baseball, Chaplin's words became less, because he had never touched baseball at all. Most of the time, his friends were talking. He smiled at the other side and listened carefully. Occasionally, he said a few words in response to his friends.
朋侪因为没能得到喜好的活动员的签名，感到非常遗憾。归去之后，卓别林特意托关系费尽周折，帮朋侪拿到了那个棒球活动员的签名。
My friend felt very sorry because he could not get the signature of his favorite athlete. After returning, Chaplin took great pains to help his friend get the signature of the baseball player.
很多人都不理解。要知道，在那么长的时间里听朋侪讲一件本身完全不感兴趣的事变，那种感觉已经很难熬了，还要为了朋侪的一句话，费了那么大的劲去拿签名。为什么？
Many people don't understand. You know, it's hard to hear a friend talk about something that he is not interested in for such a long time, and you have to work so hard to get your signature for a word from your friend. Why?
卓别林告诉身边的人：“我是对棒球不感兴趣，可我的朋侪对棒球感兴趣，只有恭敬他人所恭敬的事物，别人才能感受到本身被理解被恭敬，这是齐备交情的根本。”
Chaplin told people around him: "I am not interested in baseball, but my friend is interested in baseball. Only by respecting what others respect, can others feel that they are understood and respected, which is the basis of all friendships."
有句话说：人最大的魅力不是你的性格魅力，而是你对待别人是否认真。
There is a saying that the greatest charm of a person is not your personality charm, but whether you treat others seriously.
敷衍对你好的人，就是在不恭敬他们的心意。认真对待，对方感受到我们的恭敬，交情才会长期。
People who treat you perfunctorily are not respecting their hearts. Take it seriously, the other party will feel our respect, and the friendship will last. |
