我们总抱怨：越长大越孤单，连快乐都离本身越来越迢遥。
We always complain that the more we grow up, the more lonely we are. Even happiness is more and more distant from us.
但谁能说，这齐备不是自找的。
But who can say that this is not self-inflicted.
拥有很多却想要更多，犹如狩猎者紧盯着猎物，心中不停在呐喊“不够！还不够！”
Having a lot but wanting more is like a hunter staring at his prey and shouting "Not enough! Not enough!"
其实，懂得放手才是得到。
In fact, to know how to let go is to get.
这时代，节奏太快，周围时间充斥的是一种穷追不舍的紧急感。
In this era, the pace is too fast, and the surrounding time is full of a sense of urgency.
于是我们嘴上说着累，内心流着泪却不敢停下来，仿佛轻微松懈就会让我们满盘皆输。
So we were tired with words on our lips, but we didn't dare to stop with tears in our hearts. It seemed that a slight relaxation would make us lose everything.
假如能适时地做下减法，或许能更轻松地把事变做到极致。
If you can subtract in time, you may be able to do things more easily.
有一次，我爸约我出去散心，广场上正好有人在分发气球。他向来对这些不感爱好，却破天荒地也去看人家给气球打气。
Once, my father asked me to go out to relax. Someone was distributing balloons in the square. He has never been interested in these things, but for the first time, he also went to see people cheer up balloons.
“孩子，气球不消充太满。气充的太足，压力越大，随时有可能爆炸。”
"Children, the balloon should not be too full. If it is too full, the pressure will increase, and it may explode at any time."
放空本身，做本身喜欢的事变，在家整理杂物，静下心熨平衣服的每一寸褶皱。
Empty yourself, do what you like, tidy up the sundries at home, and iron every inch of wrinkles in your clothes.
当把本身的喜爱做到极致时，将会迸发更多的感悟和灵感，貌似也没什么事能拦截我们本身了。
When we reach the limit of our love, we will burst out more insights and inspiration. It seems that nothing can stop us.
说的上话的不一定都叫“好友”，每个聚餐喝酒的日子也并非都叫生存。
Not all the people who talk are called "friends", and not all the days of dining and drinking are called life.
点赞之交，拼团队友，清理不须要的，没什么可夷由的。此后，才知道哪些人是告急的。
There is nothing to hesitate about. Only then did we know who was important.
成年人的交情，数量往往会出现断崖式的下降，有的朋友注定只能陪本身一程。
The number of adult friendships tends to drop precipitously. Some friends are destined to accompany themselves only once.
无效社交，只会不断斲丧本身。
Ineffective social interaction will only consume yourself.
相反地，当我有意识地给社交圈“留白”后，我发现本身和真正的朋友反倒更亲近了。
On the contrary, when I consciously "left blank" in the social circle, I found myself closer to my real friends.
和三两个志同道合的朋友，一起做着喜欢的事变，如许的日子叫生存。共享自我世界一份极致的自由与喜悦。
With three or two like-minded friends, we do things we like together. Such a day is called life. Share the ultimate freedom and joy in your own world.
“当我们占有物品的时间，物品也在占有我们。”
"When we take possession of things, things also take possession of us."
物质带给我们的满足可短可长，这取决于我们与对方是否心意相通。
The satisfaction that material brings us can be short or long, which depends on whether we have the same intention with each other.
生存中，90%的物品是用不上的，剩下的10%，或许才是我们真正需要的。
In life, 90% of the items are unusable, and the remaining 10% may be what we really need.
去掉无用的，生存变得简洁明白，想要用的东西随时就能找出来。
Get rid of useless, life becomes concise and clear, and you can find what you want to use at any time.
让生存简朴到极致，也是一种态度。
It is also an attitude to make life simple to the extreme. |
